Saturday, November 06, 2010
Some of the Guo Da Li Items
Teapot sets
(I had chosen this at the moment)
The very traditional one...
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Guo Da Li (Betrothal)
Betrothal comprises of gifts and cash delivered to the bride's home by the groom, of which the bride's family will accept and return the reminder to avoid giving the impression of "selling" their daughter.
The betrothal empitomizes the sincerity towards the marriage between the bindings of 2 families and assures the bride's family that she will be well taken care of after marriage. It also shows the groom's financial dependability.
Betrothal is to be done 2-3 weeks before the wedding day.
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Monday, November 01, 2010
http://www.seasonsgift.com/eternity.html
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I want to be special... so everything also I want to be special... Hand Bouquet... must be the prettiest!!! Thou' I already know what kind of hand bouquet I want... I want to have furry ones... With a dreamy effect... But I am still looking around... for the most perfect one...
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Thursday, October 21, 2010
These are sets of ang bao boxes, wedding ring pillows and pen stand...
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Tuesday, October 19, 2010
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http://www.extraordinary.com.sg/inspiration_contents.asp?inspirationID=2&sub_inspirationID=20
seems like there's nothing much to update on this blog now since we all have facebook... and even if I post the pictures, it's all duplicated as I will also upload the same set of pictures on facebook... so... I have decided to convert this blog... to my wedding planning blog...
I'm going to post pictures, on all the nice & interesting things that I have come across while preparing for the wedding... since dear is like... not so excited... and maybe not so interested in the planning... I just have to google on my own, and share with... everyone who are reading this blog... (not sure if anyone is still reading now)... I know Tang just read it few days ago...
This is the very interesting ang bao box that I just came across that made me have this urge to convert this blog into my wedding planning blog... Another reason is that I can refer back to this blog if I want to see what have I researched on so far... anything interesting??? Anything that makes me have the urge to... GET MARRIED!!!
Enjoy!!!
Basically, this box is very unique in a way that there are 3 categories... so your guests can put their ang baos into the diff sections... after the dinner, the bride and bridegroom can sit in the hotel room and see who are the ppl who wants to contribute their ang baos to our house, travel or baby... I guess most ppl will choose baby... so after collecting the ang baos... we will allocate the ang bao $$ according to the 3 categories... so fun!!! but I think most prob we'll use the money to pay for the banquet... and the rest for honeymoon... since baby will come in few yrs time... lol...
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Sunday, September 05, 2010
Got so much to say recently... I realised I'm v emotional nowadays... Have I grown weaker instead of stronger? I was complaining to one of my colleague about it and tears actually start rolling down... why??? I'm not too sure abt it also... Whatever it is, I told myself I should not be affected by her anymore... I'll just do my job well, and progress and excel in whatever ways... OMG... can't believe it...
Met up with my ex colleagues last Friday... Dinner at Shokudu, and beer at (I duno whats the name of the bar)... its just opp chijmes, in raffles city itself... Haven drank for very long... and I just love the smooth feeling of Kilkenny... oops... Dear is so pissed when he found out that I drank Kilkenny... coz its sounds like "Kill Kenny"... lol... oh~ I didnt mean to kill u...
Sometimes, its feels gd not to be too "sober"... I finally know why ppl leave the company... for the better? or for the worse... I've been asking myself why are they leaving??? But now, I'm also considering to leave... After hearing many stories abt how ppl get cheated... I think so far I've not been cheated yet... Maybe I will someday... But those who chose to leave seems to be happier now... that those why chose to stay (like myself), feels sadder and sadder each day...
They were the ones who fought with me ever since I joined the company in May 2008... how times flies and I'm now into my 3rd year of the job... They were the ones whom I used to fight with, pick up quarrels and at the end of the day, we're still gd frenz... Couples should not work tog, gd frenz shd not work tog... I miss working with u guys... Really... the new comers just cannot fight at all...
Nowadays, I seldom fight with ppl... Have I lost my fighting spirit??? Or my fighting spirit had left with them...
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Saturday, September 04, 2010
Been very depressed recently... I'm also not sure why I am so affected by her... But I dreaded going to work... and I have to drag my feet to walk into office... I don't want to face her... dun wanna hear her voice... I simply just hate it...
My boss have been saying... look at her strong pts, dun always look at her weak pts... Got to help her becoz I'm more capable... but when I needed help, who is there to help me??? I can't stand ppl who are selfish, always care about themselves, self-centered, no team spirit... But why are we still keeping her when all of us feel that she's extra... Yes, one more person means one more pair of hands, but those hands aren't helping much... and most of the time, we have to solve her problems for her... Not only dislike her, she's affecting the department, affecting my progress, and affecting other department... almost everyone dislike her... so why???
What is the worst senario? It's to ask her to leave and we (the 2 of us) have to cover her job? Boss won't get someone else to come in? But what if I am the one who choose to leave? Can the 2 of them cover my job? Boss will definitely get someone in to replace me... What difference does it makes?
Everyone of us always feels that the grass on the other side is greener... The moon on the opp side is rounder... I agree that this is not always true... We will not know unless I get to the other side...But this is a risk... Risking myself to move on to the other side and hoping that the grass will be greener... If I found out that its not as green as what I think, then move on again... I believe I am still young, and is willing to learn... It shouldn't be that tough to find a new job...
But on the other hand, if I decided to leave... all the effort that I have put in will go down to the drain... Is it really worth it??? Should I stay or should I move on?
Although I have decided to stay for the time being... to achieve what I wanna achieve... to achieve my aim before I move on... I shall tolerate for the next 6 months and see how it goes... I really hate to be in this situation... I will stand firm that I will not help her unless needed... and if the no one is doing anything to salvage the situation... I'll move on... Since everyone feels that she deserve another chance, and then another chance, and then another chance... I'm not giving her anymore chances..
I BELIEVE I CAN DO IT!!! Just bit my lips and hang on...
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Monday, June 14, 2010
I guess I should start blogging again… because I still find that this is the best way for me to voice out my happiness/unhappiness…
I have a lot of doubts… I do know that ppl do change… for the better, for the worse… somehow, I feel that he changed too… but one thing he probably nv change, is his love for me…
Maybe when 2 people get together, after sometime… everything that was once… “OK OK, yes dear” becomes “No, dun wan… see how… dun feel like doing this”. I’m getting more and more worried… and sometimes I dun even dare to mention it.., because I am not sure if he really, does MIND…
Like going for dinner…
Last time: Let’s go for dinner with my parents? He will say “OK, I dun mind”
Now: Let’s go for dinner with my parents? He will say “See how first”
Even picking them up and running errands seem very troublesome… Sigh… I think its really good to just depend on myself… Afterall, its my family…
Suddenly, I feel very depressed recently… Are these signs of depression?
I feel that I really contribute very little to my family. I only gave them $100-$150 per month, and used up the bulk of my pay for facial, manicure, pedicure, restaurants, shopping… even thou my pay has increased, I still feel that I am short of $$... Sometimes, I feel like bringing them out for dinner but I have to worry if dear minds…
Been worried about Mummy’s health… she quit her job coz she feels giddy, weak, hungry… probably due to gastric prob… excess stomach acid… asked her to see specialist, but she kept on visiting the TCM… and medicine dun seem ti work… whenever someone says where n where, which doc is gd, she will go… took her 2 months plus to agreed to see the western doc… and then another 2 mths to see the specialist (got to queue)… doc recommend to do a scope but she rejected. So doc gave her the medicine to try out and if still no signs of recovery, then go for the scope… after few days, she complained that the doc is not good. Medicine is not working. Suggest to go for a scope, but she dun wan to go back to CGH… I find out more from Joslyn who is working in Raffles Hospital, and when Joslyn wanna helped her to make appointment, she say wait… then she continue to visit the TCM… now… I really duno what she wants now… I feel very tired, having to juggle work, r/s, and family…
Even the Penang trip that I am looking forward to, I have not done any research… and have not even booked the hotels… damn exhausted and depressed…
There are lots of things that I wanna do, but right now, I just go home after work, play game or watch show, and sleep… I used to be very smart (as in not clever), but I just do whatever I feel like doing, go wherever I wan to go… but right now, there are a lot of things that I must consider… family, dear, work, money…
Lots of uncertainties… but I’m trying not to think abt everything… I just want to rest and sleep…
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(I had chosen this at the moment)
The very traditional one...
(I had chosen this to go with the teapot set)
http://www.seasonsgift.com/eternity.html.jpg)
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http://www.extraordinary.com.sg/inspiration_contents.asp?inspirationID=2&sub_inspirationID=20
